So what comes with a wonderful divorce is an ex husband who no longer wants to help. Normally I never speak ill in regards to him, but tables have turned and Im tired. He decided to stop paying any child support whatsoever. He stopped paying half of it last November and now decided he will no longer pay his half share of day care. Of course day care is expensive and costs me close to $2,000 a month. I am so beyond frustrated! I filed for Child Support and received a call from the case manager that it may take close to 6 months to have an order established. I just dont understand how a father can just walk away from their financial duty and assume the mother can pay for everysingle thing. Pathetic.. simply pathetic. There are no excuses for him.
My house is officially in escrow now and they buyer wants it to close on August 28th. Yes, you guessed it, in 9 days!! There is no way I can find another place and move that quickly. So no doubt, drama has ensued in the craziness to find another place to live. Not only that, I also have to worry about where the kids will go to daycare, etc.. ohh and pay for it as well!!
Despite the drama, the kids and I doing quite well (considering...) and we are having fun together. Andrew is finally talking more and tells me that he likes frogs, snakes, lizards, bears and dogs. He speaks of them often and likes to show me how a frog jumps. Love it! Emma, oh lord, is the craziest of them all. Her birthday on 12/24 will be her 4th but she insists that she is already 5 years old and if you dare tell her she is wrong you will receive the face of death. She gets soooo mad at me that I start to laugh and it sets her off. lol.. so for now she is 5. She also told me she is a super hero and can control the wind. ok good.. I need one of those in the family. :)
take care.
b
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
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So sorry Brandy, I can't understand the unwillingness to support his children at all. Just don't get it. Does he see them at all? Good luck with the move/sale.
Welcome to the dead beat babys daddy club, it only gets worse!
Tessa
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